Thursday, March 22, 2007

Do you shoot or dribble?



No, no. I'm not talking about basketball. You know what I'm talking about. This question was asked to dear ol' me just a few days ago by a new friend of mine. It was quite bold of my new friend to just up and ask me this, but he was curious, so I told him. I'm a shooter. Yes, folks, here's the news you've all been waiting for. I shoot. lol. Still don't know what I'm referring to?



You see my friend was told by his current girlfriend why his 'man juice' just dribbled out, while her other 'mates' had shot theirs far far away from the cannon. He was very concerned that he might have only been the only one that was this way. Of course, I had to scare the poor guy. lol. It sort of went a little like this....."What, you don't shoot? Why? What disease did you get?" lol. Then a sudden look of despair, fright and sheer anxiety came across his face. It was priceless, followed of course by a raucous laughter on my part. I know it was mean, but I felt I had to.



After all the 'mean'ness, I decided to tell him that lots of guys just sort of dribble out. I actually have had times where I am extremely tired and so not in the mood, that it would just dribble along. But of course most times, when it's hot and heavy...haha..I shoot. I think the farthest I've shot would be hitting my forehead, and gladly missing my eye. I don't necessarily think it's that important whether you shoot or dribble, does it? I mean, there are pros and cons for both, as usual. The con that I see for shooting would be, well, the range of places you have to clean up increases. Sometimes you don't even know where it splattered to. lol. But....it feels sooooo good. :)

Here's a little fun clip, I thought you guys would enjoy. This guy is definitely a shooter.
No porn, just fun!





Secretly Yours,
-Donnie

Friday, March 16, 2007

New Kid in Town



Being the new kid in town is always uber difficult. Especially if you are totally new to the culture, traditions and values of the place you're trying to integrate into. That is basically how I am currently feeling at the moment. Although I've been here for several months now, I still feel out of place at times. I miss Calgary. boohoo. But I have to move on.

One of the many struggles of moving into a new city, new country, or new continent for that matter is the meeting of new friends, acquaintances and establishing a social network from scratch. I was lucky enough to have had a very eclectic group of friends back in Calgary which helped me, not only to meet new and interesting people at every turn, but also to experience many things that I otherwise would not have ever dreamed of without the help of these people. Now, establishing that kind of foray of friends in a new city seems harder for me, especially at this stage of my life. I'm currently not attending school, and am just travelling around, making it difficult to keep any relation stable and constant. Hence I end up with no contacts when I need something and make it even harder for me to go out with people. As friendly as I am, I don't want to go clubbing or bar-hopping on my own all the time. I want to be able to have friends to come see, meet and dine with.

Therefore, after a lot of deliberation amongst myself..lol. I've decided to find work, where I can, of course get income to replenish my travel budget, as well as meet new friends, that I suppose will become more established and concrete than my previous rendez-vous with various randoms. teehee. :) The job I got is a call center agent. Yes, it's those darn people who call you, and maybe even sometimes harass you via "spitless conversation"(phone). I got the job extremely easily, considering I'm a native speaker of the English language and the people here speak English only as a secondary language. The company is huge and the place seems really nice. So hopefully, their employees are as well.

But, still, does it really become that hard to make new friends once you're on your own travelling all over the place? I supposse it would be unless you made the voyage with other people. Anyhow, tell me what you think? Are there ways to make solid friendships with people you only meet and then say goodbye to in the span of a few days? Is it possible? Just a thought. :)


Secretly Yours,
-Donnie Cooper

Wednesday, March 07, 2007

I'm back...just in time for Spring Break!




Well, after almost two months being away from this blog...I've decided to start it up again. As you all know I'm currently away from my home town. At the moment I am at a resort town in an Asian country. I don't think I need to specify. Anyhow, I hope you guys have missed me because I truly have missed you guys.

But to be truly honest, the main reason why I have decided to once again pursue this blog is because I'm hoping that this can become a source of relief for me; relief from all the days where I hide my true self from others. I also hope that there are readers out there who understand what I'm going through and who can provide me with decent and helpful advice.

Anyhow. Until my next post. BTW. Tell me all about your guys' Spring Break Plans! I'll see you soon!


Secretly Yours
-Donnie